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With each applicable answer, ask yourself again why that particular reason is important, until you get to what you believe is the true reason your original value is important to you. You may even need to re-name it! However, if you do re-name it, be sure to follow through with asking yourself the “why” and “what” questions again to double-check yourself. The Cost of Compromising Important ValuesPeople most often get into trouble with their values when they compromise their most important values for values that are lower-ranking values on their list. To see how this works, consider the following example: Scott is an artist who ranked his values as follows:
Scott worked for several years at a popular tourist destination where he rented a small vendor booth and created unique air-brushed landscape portraits that he sold to tourists. He struggled financially, but felt a traditional job would compromise his highest values – freedom and his passion for art. One day, however, a man approached Scott and asked him to paint a series of murals for him in exchange for a substantial amount of money. Scott enthusiastically accepted and soon found himself painting murals for the man’s friends as well. For a while, Scott was extremely happy. After several months, however, Scott began feeling depressed and resentful of his new job. Through close examination of his values and feelings, Scott discovered that he had “sold out” his highest values (freedom, passion, and accomplishment) for one of his lower ranking values (security). Scott missed the freedom he had to make his own choices about his art. Although his new customers were enthusiastic and exceptionally pleased with Scott’s murals, Scott didn’t have the same sense of passion about creating them, and this diminished his sense of accomplishment as well. He also missed interacting with fellow vendors and especially the tourists!
POSSIBLE VALUES CONFLICTS _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ _____________________________________________________________________________ Now repeat the values clarification process for "personal values" and "social values."
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